I'M ANDREW
LIFE COACH, BODYWORKER, AND MEN'S WORK LEADER
Hey brother, I'm glad you're here. I help men find satisfaction in their relationships through a combination of inner work, building awareness, and learning new skill sets.
I started my career as a massage therapist when I was 21 years old and after 10 years of listening to people talk about their stress on my massage table I decided to become a life coach. I wanted to help people with more then just their bodily pain. I wanted to help them solve their problems. The empathy and active listening skills I developed as a massage therapist combined with my life experiences and my years of training as a life coach have enabled me to work with men in a uniquely effective way.
I coach specifically on relationships because they are such a big and important part of life. I often say life is all about relationships and I know how difficult they can be as a man. In our current western culture we don't learn much about how to have a successful relationship. Most of our fathers didn't teach us the skills we needed to know, they didn't prepare us for the problems we would encounter, and they didn't model what a great partner looks like. We likely didn't learn about those things in school either. If you are like me you learned through your peers, through the internet and movies, and through trial and error. I took me a lot of fucking up and running away to decide I needed and wanted to heal, learn, and finally create a healthy relationship.
Today I'm 36 and I'm engaged to be married to an amazing woman and officially become a step father and I couldn't be happier. You are capable of the same transformation in your life. All it takes is a genuine desire, a commitment to improve, being coachable, and effort.
I'm not going to lie to you, relationships are challenging, even the best ones, but when you are equipped with the right skills and mindset, the fulfillment, sense of purpose, belonging, acceptance, and connection you experience are unmatched. A healthy relationship can bring so much more richness and depth to life and help us achieve the highest and truest expression of our souls. Being together is how humans are built to thrive.
When I'm not coaching you can find me with my family riding bikes, enjoying dinner, fishing, swimming, playing board games, snowboarding, camping, dancing, making art, traveling, reading, and much more.
MY CORE PHILOSPHIES
Everyone is capable of growth
Masculinity isn't toxic
Listening is mission critical
Honesty is required
Direction is more important than speed
Action is necessary
You can't do it alone